Let’s take a moment to ourselves, away from all the mom and dad and maybe school duties. When was the last time you thought about your purpose outside the comforting boundaries of family?
We often define ourselves by our roles within our families—parent, sibling, child. But what if you were told that the most profound version of yourself might exist beyond those titles?
Imagine waking up and asking, “Who am I when I’m not just a parent or caretaker?” The question might feel overwhelming and a tad selfish, right? Think of this fact: our identities are multifaceted. Our sense of self is made stronger because we explore interests, passions, and dreams that lie beyond our responsibilities to the family, the way a diamond sparkles differently from each angle it is viewed from.
Also, all of the hobbies you put away in the closet have actually just been parts of you—painting, writing, hiking—that bring joy, but life’s heft tends to weigh them down.
This rediscovery process doesn’t only serve a personal purpose; it enhances the life that you share with others, your family. Being your best self while having hobbies is what really enriches your family. When people become more vibrant, lively people, it sometimes spreads over to those that you’re living with.
Think of the ripple effect. The children may learn about their own individuality, while your partner will feel spurred to pursue their own aspirations. Finding purpose outside the family isn’t about abandoning one’s loved ones but enriching relationships by being more of yourself.
So, here’s an encouraging advice: step back. What have you put dreams on hold for? What outside the familial realm sets your heart ablaze? Dive into that curiosity.
This is not only how you redefine purpose but also ways to shine a light into the darkness of others discovering their own. And isn’t a full you a fuller, more connected family life? Isn’t that a trip worth taking?
